Writing Obituaries That Actually Get Read
The Dispatch runs obituaries as a regular feature, and the ones that land tend to share a few practical traits. They include verifiable facts. They avoid generic filler. They give readers something they can actually use — service times, cemetery locations, specific charity mentions instead of "the family requests donations" without naming where the money should go. I've worked closely with newspaper staff on obituary submissions for years, and the pattern is predictable. Families come in grieving and overwhelmed, which is completely understandable. The submissions that get returned for revisions usually have three problems: incomplete biographical data, overly vague phrasing, or missing key logistical details. The ones that run cleanly on the first pass are written like informational documents first and emotional tributes second.
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Here is how the process actually works from the submission side. You draft the obituary yourself or work with a funeral home's template, then submit it to The Dispatch's obituary desk. Most papers require you to fill out a form on their website with the basic information — full name, age, date of death, surviving family members, service details. You can also email it directly if that's faster. The editorial team reviews it for accuracy, length, and tone before it goes to print or the online version publishes. Turnaround is typically two to four business days depending on volume. The standard word limit for a traditional printed obituary in most local papers is between 200 and 400 words. Some papers offer longer tribute sections or paid memorial columns that allow 800 to 1500 words. The Dispatch has different tiers, so it pays to ask before drafting. A 300-word piece costs significantly less than a full-page memorial, and families often don't realize the price difference until after submission. Plan your content around the tier you can afford. I once dealt with a particularly messy situation where a family submitted an obituary with conflicting information — the daughter listed one date of birth and the son listed a different one, and neither matched the death certificate. The obituary desk caught it and flagged the discrepancy, which delayed publication by a day. The workaround was simple but easily missed: always pull the core biographical facts directly from the death certificate or the funeral director's paperwork before you start writing. Family members arguing over details is a known edge case, and the paper will usually defer to whatever document is most authoritative rather than trying to mediate. If you're the one submitting, just verify everything upfront and save everyone the headache.
There are a few things most people get wrong about obituary writing, and they're worth noting. First, listing every single surviving relative is almost never necessary and often counterproductive. A standard format covers spouse, children, grandchildren, and sometimes siblings or parents. You do not need to list cousins, in-laws, or friends unless there is a specific reason. Second, the cause of death is optional in most newspapers. The Dispatch generally does not require it, and including it rarely adds anything meaningful to the piece. Some families feel pressured to include it because of social media habit, but traditional obituaries predate that culture entirely. Another common pitfall is the opening line. Most templates tell you to start with "passed away peacefully," which is meaningless boilerplate. The reader already knows the person died. That is what an obituary is for. A more useful opener gives the person's full name, age, and city of residence in one sentence, then moves into what they actually did with their life. Occupation, military service, volunteer work, hobbies — the specific details are what make the piece informative and memorable. The structural approach I recommend is straightforward. Paragraph one covers the basics: name, age, location, date and place of death. Paragraph two covers the biography — where they were born, education, career, military service if applicable. Paragraph three covers survivors and predeceased family members in a concise list. Paragraph four covers the service details: date, time, location, officiant if relevant. Final paragraph covers donations or flowers with exact names and addresses of the organizations or funeral homes involved. That is it. No poetic closing statements, no summaries, no "will be deeply missed" filler. The facts carry the weight.
Get the Full Details
One thing the industry does not talk about enough is how obituaries intersect with genealogical research. The Dispatch obituaries and similar local newspaper archives are heavily used by family historians and DNA matching services. Accurate dates, full maiden names, and correct town names matter far more than anyone realizes at the time of writing. I have seen cases where a misspelled town name or an incorrect birth year made it impossible for distant relatives to trace family connections later. Getting the geography and spelling right when you submit is a small effort that pays off for decades. For submission, The Dispatch accepts online forms through their website, email attachments, and phone submissions in some markets. The online form is the most reliable route because it creates a timestamped record and reduces transcription errors. Email works fine but requires you to follow any formatting instructions precisely — some desks strip special characters from email body text. Handwritten notes on napkins will not be accepted regardless of how heartfelt they are, a fact that sounds obvious until someone tries it. Costs vary by market and length, but a standard 200-to-300-word obituary in a local daily like The Dispatch typically runs between $150 and $350. Full-page or multi-column memorials can exceed $1000. Photo insertion is usually an extra charge, ranging from $25 to $75 depending on size and resolution requirements. High-resolution JPEGs or PNGs work best; scanned photocopies of old photos rarely meet print quality standards. If you have a digital photo, use that. If you only have a physical photo, scan it at 300 DPI minimum rather than taking a picture of it with your phone.
Revisions after publication are difficult. Once the issue goes to print or the page goes live online, corrections typically require a formal retraction fee and a rewritten submission. Minor factual errors like a wrong street address can sometimes be corrected in the next day's online update at no cost, but major changes are not free. Double-check everything before you hit submit. Reading the draft aloud once catches about half the errors. Having a second person review it catches most of the rest. Three minutes of review time prevents hours of follow-up calls to the newsroom. The broader function of these pieces extends beyond notification. A well-written obituary informs people who need to know about a service they may want to attend. It gives context about a life that shaped a community. It creates a permanent public record that outlasts social media posts, which disappear within months due to algorithm changes or platform shutdowns. Newspaper archives remain searchable for decades, which is why accuracy matters on submission day and not three weeks later. If you are currently preparing an obituary for The Dispatch, start with the facts from the death certificate and funeral home paperwork, draft to fit the word limit you can afford, verify every name and date against source documents, and submit early rather than waiting until the last possible moment. The process is straightforward if you treat it as an information document first and a tribute second. That order tends to produce better results for everyone involved.
